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Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change…
We just moved into a NEW year, the beginnings of a NEW decade and it all starts with today. The year, 2020- a number many of us will associate with vision, what’s actually considered the perfect vision.
What is your vision — what do you see for yourself on this NEW day of this NEW year of this NEW decade? I follow many inspirational/motivational people that speak about how we are the creators of our lives.
What this means to me is that the way I look at things creates how I view my life, which produces how I chose to live my life.
Do you see the world as a positive place, or a negative place?
Do you see life happening for you or to you?
Do you ask why is this happening to me, or come from a place of what am I to learn from what is happening?
I used to come from the negative, the happening to me, the why me….I lived in a place of anxiety, lack, fear. I judged others, complained, was caught up in the drama of life. I would numb myself with food, with alcohol — I even numbed myself with Xanax.
I look now and think of how I wasn’t living my life, I was just existing… Can you relate? I know I’m not alone with this, but I ultimately felt very alone.