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Don’t Make Any Resolutions in 2020

Michele Thill
3 min readJan 5, 2020

It’s a NEW year in a NEW decade — it’s a time for a NEW beginnings, right?? So why start with an old philosophy that will end about a month or so later?!

Instead, what I look to do is set intentions on what I desire.

One might argue that resolutions and intentions are the same thing just worded differently. I see resolutions as what my mind wants and with a dead line. Intentions are what my soul is requiring for growth, it’s the journey.

A resolution is wanting to lose 10 lbs (might as well add, “by ‘x’ amount of time”). That’s because it’s focus is on the outcome, which never seems to be soon enough. And if reached, hard to maintain because it’s focus is just about how we look better.

An intention is wanting to be physically (and mentally) healthier. It’s the journey that takes us there with the outcome being not only weight loss but so much more. We learn to not only lose but how to maintain because the focus is on how we overall feel better.

Resolutions seem to add to our already stressed out lives. It puts more pressure on us to produce and is not forgiving when we don’t. It closes us up. It comes from the negative. It’s the all or nothing thinking, the black and white world.

Intentions allows us to move in the direction we desire, but in a gentle…

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Michele Thill
Michele Thill

Written by Michele Thill

Through self-awareness, I help women tap into their inner power. Let’s make the 2nd half of your life the best half! https://www.facebook.com/NewlandWellness/

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