I have been reading Anthony William, the Medical Medium. He shares in the book Life Changing Foods, page 9: Lupus, for example, is the body having an allergic reaction to the Epstein Barr Virus (EBV) neurotoxins. The condition ends up getting all the focus, while the underlying viral infection continues to grow."
If you have not looked into his work, might this be something that could help you? I have found help myself through some of the other things he has shared.
Sending you love ~